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 What Fam Love Is...

The vision is for this site to connect me with my family in a way that is open, honest, and sincere. I want to express my thoughts and hope to inspire others to share theirs. However, this isn't a Facebook or IG thing. This isn't the holiday or family event where we should be focused on the theme of the moment or just being there and supportive of each other. No this isn't one of those times or places. Instead this is where you take the time to consider what you want to say before you ever get close to hitting the 'Post' button.

You know, people like to claim they keep it so '100%' out here. Of course they say that and the next week they want to explain how they had to make an exception for this time or this person. It's not that they are being phony or fake. It's not even that they are playing a part or trying to show up for the next person. Usually, it comes down to people talking in absolutes. When in reality there are very few absolutes. You can be a very strong person, with grit and determination. However, life is fluid and so must we be. We should try to be brave enough to accept these changes and face the obstacles with courage , as we accept the rewards with excitement.

I say these things with love and pray you except them in love. Please help me make this a place that lifts us all. 

Blessings,
B. Bigby 3rd